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How to Help Your Teen Have a Great Future

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Helping your teen navigate some of the most emotional and pivotal years of their life can be a challenging task at times. Many parents struggle with finding the right balance between giving advice and telling them what to do. You know that your teen needs to be able to figure some things out on their own, however you might also feel like you know what is best for them in certain situations. While this may be true, allowing them to find their own way with your guidance, as opposed to control, is important.

The fact of the matter is that your teen is going to have an exciting future ahead of them. If you are looking for ways in which you can help them achieve all that they can and enjoy that bright future, here are a few tips to bear in mind.

Learn to Listen

When it comes to helping your teen to have a great future, one of the most important things you can do for them is to learn how to listen. It is only by listening to your teen that you will be able to better understand the vision that they have for their own future. By learning to listen, you can offer them all the assistance and guidance that they need in order to achieve the future they are after.

Listening is also the only way to know where your teen is at right now emotionally and mentally speaking. Your teen might be dealing with struggles that haven’t been apparent to you up until now. You should pay special attention when they reach out to you and try to read between the lines when they share things with you. Many teens find it difficult to be honest with their parents about the things they are dealing with, but if you let them know that you are there to listen to them then they will be more likely to open up.

If you do find that your teen is in need of more specialized help, you can then bring them to a rehab center for teens. You will never know if such a step is necessary, though, unless you learn to listen.

Help Them Plan

In order for your teen to achieve the bright future that they envision and that you want for them, they will need to take definitive steps towards it. This means that you will both need to be on the same page about what that future looks like and what needs to be done in pursuit of it.

If your ten has a specific career in mind, what sort of degree and experience are necessary to be qualified for such a career? If they don’t know yet what they want to do with their life, are there certain areas of interest that they can explore? You might consider having them shadow a professional who is already working in one of your teen’s areas of interest.

Whatever their future holds, they will need your help to plan out the right path to that future.

6 Tips for Taking Your Child to Their First Concert

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Everyone remembers their first concert. The excitement, the noise, the sights, the sounds, the smells –– it’s a big moment for many adolescents. As a parent, it’s important that you do everything possible to ensure that your kid has a fantastic time without experiencing any of the pitfalls associated with a live music act. With that in mind, here are six tips you can use to guarantee that your child’s first concert is memorable for all the right reasons. Check them out here:

Buy Good Seats

Unless your child is especially tall for their age, it’s unlikely they’ll be able to see over grown-adults standing up in a crowd. Therefore, it’s a smart play to shell out a little extra to get good seats so they’ll be able to see the show without interruption. No one wants to spend two hours staring at the back of some stranger’s head.

Listen to the Artist

If you haven’t listened to the band that your child is going to see, take some time to check out their latest album. Not only is this an easy way to connect with your child, but it will let you determine if the concert is appropriate for their age.

Bring Ear Plugs

Suffice it to say that rock concerts can be extremely loud affairs. So don’t forget to bring ear plugs for yourself and your child. Note, young children in particular have sensitive ears!

Give them Some Space

If your child is in their teens and wants to go to a concert with their friends, then it’s a good idea to give them some space. It’s okay to keep an eye on them from a distance, but there’s no need to cramp their style while they’re enjoying their favorite band.

Have Cash on Hand

Think concert tickets are expensive? Then just wait until you get to the actual venue. Refreshments are sure to set you back a good amount, and artist merchandise can range from $40-$80 for t-shirts and jackets. Yet, it’s highly likely that many kids will want a souvenir from their first concert –– so be prepared for this eventuality. Now is not the time to teach them a lesson about saving money.

Be Safe 

At the end of the day, a kid’s first concert should be a fun, positive experience. However, parents should also be aware of any potentially harmful situations that may occur at a concert venue. Don’t let your kids out of your sight, and teach them to respect boundaries. (Crowd control barriers are in place for a reason!) Going to a concert for the first time will be a blast for your child, but always remember that it’s better to be safe than sorry.

4 Health Tips for New Parents

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Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience. And while it is extremely rewarding, it can also be quite stressful, time-consuming, and frustrating. As such, it’s not surprising that many new parents struggle to balance their new responsibilities with a healthy lifestyle. After all, it’s not easy taking care of a newborn 24/7, 365. Thankfully, there are steps you can take to ensure that you maintain healthy habits without neglecting any of your new parental obligations. Check out our top four health tips for new parents here:

Make Time to Exercise

Time management is a theme that we’ll revisit throughout this piece. As one can imagine, caring for an infant requires lots of time and attention. Given that fact, it’s important for new parents to make the most of the free time they do have available. Scheduling out a few times a week to get in a solid workout can be very beneficial. Plus, not only is exercising good for your physical well-being, but a vigorous workout can also help relieve stress. Lastly, don’t think twice about taking a walk with your little one in their stroller. Just getting up and moving around can provide a big boost to your energy and morale!

Meal Prep

Again, it’s unlikely that new moms and dads will have lots of time on their hands to cook healthy and delicious meals every single day. That’s why it’s so important to prepare meals at the beginning of the week so that you can grab and go as you need to. The good news is that it’s possible to find plenty of easy, healthy recipes that also taste great.

Speak with Your Doctor

New parents, understandably, place a priority on the health of their children. However, while you may feel like you’re constantly running back and forth between your home and the pediatrician’s for months at a time, it’s imperative not to forget about your own well-being. Don’t neglect treatment plans or doctor’s appointments! Medical professionals offer a huge variety of beneficial services –– from stem cell back injections to regular check-ups. So call up your doctor if it’s been a few months since your last appointment.

Remember to Breathe

Being a parent is hectic. It’s worth keeping in mind that while life moves fast, you can’t ever go back. Therefore, do your best to enjoy the experience of parenthood as it unfolds. Otherwise, you could end up missing out on a special moment! To conclude, don’t feel bad about asking others for help from time to time. Getting a family member or close friend to babysit for you will give you an opportunity to unwind and relax.

Rewarding Kids For Their Effort and Commitment

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All children, regardless of their athletic ability, should be encouraged to participate in youth sports. Participating in youth sports has numerous benefits that can help children develop into healthier and happy children that are able to face challenges and overcome difficult situations. No matter how much skill or talent a player has in a particular sport, each child should be recognized for their accomplishments and their achievements. It almost goes hand-in-hand: sports and trophies.

The Participation Controversy

Many parents, athletes, and celebrities in the spotlight are questioning whether or not children in youth sports should be given a participation trophy. Many people may say that children should not receive a trophy for simply participating and rather only awards should go to the best and the brightest. This claim is not supported by research, and, in fact, research has proven the exact opposite. Recent studies have found that participation awards are great for children’s self-esteem and trophies are a great way to remind children that they were part of a team.

Benefits of Recognition Awards for Children

When a child wins an award or a trophy, they will likely place the trophy on a shelf, show it to all of their friends and family, and look at it for years to come. The trophy is a symbol of their accomplishments and their commitment to a team. Whether the trophy is a first place trophy or a participation award, it most likely means the same thing to a child participating in youth sports.

Winning a trophy has a large impact on a child’s self-esteem. While all children may not be athletically inclined, any child who devotes their time and learns the skills necessary to play a sport should be recognized for their effort. No child joins a team, goes to countless hours of practice, and then gives less than their best. When children put forth their best effort they should be recognized for it.

Whether children hope to become the next Phillies all-star or are just looking to be part of a team and try something new, each and every child no matter how much skill they have are going to learn the importance of teamwork. Youth sports is one of the best ways to teach young children the value of working together. Recognizing children for their ability to work together as a team and show each other support is something that all children should be rewarded for. Most adults cannot work as well on a team as many children do. For this, children should be given an award recognizing their ability to work as a team and show each other good sportsmanship.

Recognition awards allow children to see that hard work pays off and then when you put in effort people notice. Everyone wants to be recognized for the work that they do in their job, with their family, or while doing community service. Children are no different than adults and they too want to be recognized for a job well done. If children give each practice and game their best effort, cheer on their team and their opponents, show good sportsmanship and do not quit, they deserve to be recognized for their accomplishments.

Other Types of Recognition Awards

If you strongly believe that children should not just get an award for participating, you can work together with other parents and coaches to create awards special for each player. Some players can get an MVP or most talented award, and others can get most improved or best team player award. Other players can get awards that fit their personality and style, like most effort, always on time, or best hit or throw awards. Customized awards may take more time to create; however, they may mean more to each individual child. If children see customized awards being distributed, they may try even harder next season to get the award they want. If they are competitive and desire the MVP award, they may practice on the offseason to get better so that they have a chance of becoming the most valued player on their team in the future. Since these awards are going to be displayed in their room or throughout their house in a special place for years to come, it is important that the award means something special to each player.

10 Apps That Make Parenting Easy

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Ah modern technology — definitely the best thing to happen to us humans since the invention of fire and the wheel. Most of the tasks we do today cannot be achieved without the help of automated, smart devices we installed in our home and office. It is so easy to learn about how to repair minor car problems or cook the perfect roast chicken just by making a quick search using our mobiles and ultra-fast Internet connection.

It is meant to improve our lives and become an invaluable resource for information. But it has become increasingly helpful for parents concerned about the health and happiness of their kids. There are tons of apps for anything you can think of, and even more so when it comes to parenting.

If you are a parent, here are some of best parenting apps you can download on your new iPad or smartphone to make life easier.

ChoreMonster

For the parent who finds it difficult to ask kids to do their chores, this is the app for you. You can input the chores you want each child to do daily and keep track of it. They can earn points for each chore they finish, which you can reward depending on how many they go for the week.

Baby Connect

You can organise your baby’s schedule with the doctor, feeding time, and even when you need to put them to sleep using the Baby Connect app. Other than keeping track of the schedule, you can easily share the information saved in the app with their doctor and with your partner.

Cloud Baby Monitor

Cloud Baby Monitor allows you to sync two Apple devices so these can function as a receiver and a transmitter. The transmitter is your baby monitor which gives you a live feed of your baby in the other room. It will not only record videos and sound, but it will also send you motion alerts. If you do not have a device yet, you can get a new iPad or any device from stores like Harvey Norman to help you.

Talkspace

An app that puts the parent first. Talkspace offers mums and dads an avenue to share their struggles with a licensed therapist. Parenting is not a cake walk, and this app will definitely help parents, especially those are experiencing it for the first time, to cope.

Parenthood by Baby Center

This app allows parents to share tips and tricks with each other using an intuitive interface. You can also use this to track milestones and access helpful resources.

Winnie

An alternative to Parenthood is the Winnie app. Other than a forum where parents can talk to each other, you can also use this app to research schools, schedule playdates with other kids in your area, and find activities you can enjoy as a family. Most schools have digitised learning programmes, so if you want to check out that modern set-up, you can definitely use this app to find these schools. Read up on the “BYOD” scheme here.

Life360

As kids get older, it is going to be even more difficult to keep track of their activities and whereabouts. With the Life360, your kids can “check-in” whenever they arrive in places they need to be, you can check the app for constant updates, and you can set-up a Driver Protect if they have just started driving.

Cozi Family Organizer

Just like Life360, this app helps you organise everyone’s schedule by putting all of your activities for the day and syncing it across all of your devices. You can also create a grocery list which everyone in the family can add to before you go to the supermarket.

Photomath

You will never have to worry about your kids Maths homework with the Photomath app. Simply take a picture of their homework and the app will show you step-by-step instructions on how to solve it.

Scholly

Lastly, Scholly is an app that will help parents look for universities and colleges offering scholarships. You can find the scholarship program that fits your child’s talents and see how you can help them apply for it.

Parents, allow these apps to help you organise your house and ensure the needs of each member of the family, including yours, are being taken cared of.

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